Social skills waiting your turn | kids special tips! | Live Stream

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eumlMtryVcI the video link Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! (To fully understand this chapter you may read first:”Effective communication tips with your kid | Short Commands ” Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcmCH_7JfT8 Here are some strategies that can help your child understand how long a turn will be and learn to wait for his turn Social skills waiting your turn | kids special tips! 1. Use "Timers" to measure a turn . A sand timer - When all the sand falls to the bottom your child will know it is his turn. . A kitchen timer - When it rings it is time for your child’s turn. . Counting - Count out loud or use your fingers "one, two, three...Fifty!Your turn now!" . Music - Play or sing a short song together. When the song is over, it will be his\her turn These tools can help them to predict when their turn will end or begin 2. Make the turn taking expression familiar at home and incorporate it into your activities . “It's your turn to plug the elevator button” . “It's my turn to choose a tv show” . “It's your turn to pick a book to read” Associate “turn taking” expression to a gentle physical reminder like raising the hand when it's your turn, pointing out or gently touching the shoulder of your kid when is his\her turn. 3. Use the "Talking Stick" A person can only speak while holding the stick. The others must remain silent. The next one that wants to speak will take it. The talking stick is then pass back to the leader for safe keeping. Choose your talking stick or another object that symbolizes the right to speak. The talking stick has been used for centuries by some Native American Indian Tribes to designate who had the right to speak. (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) 4.Play games that require turn-taking Building blocks, or Lego - start building a block tower by taking turns to add a block to the tower. Use the words "my turn", "your turn" Share a marker or bingo dabber with your child and take turns making dots on a page. Try for instance counting the number of dots each person gets to make during a turn. For a challenge, take turns finding and highlighting a letter in magazine or newspaper articles. For example, “Let’s find all the A’s. First it will be my turn. Then it will be your turn.” 5. Share this thought with your kid and then, repeat it together . Its hard to wait but i can do it . I have 2 choices wait quietly do something else while waiting . I'll Do it! Turn taking is not an innate skill. It needs to be taught in real life situations. With practice and support, your child will be more ready to wait for his turn. Watch my next video, Managing patience with kids | waiting times, here: https://youtu.be/XE9DibTNb_c Don´t forget to subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe to keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! ;) Click here http://educatewithartsenses.com/social-skills-waiting-turn-kids-special-tips/ to learn more! Enjoy! Subscribe to my channel and share this video with your friends or anyone else who may benefit from this information. Thank you so much for watching and remember if you want to have a great life with your kids take action and take action now!!

Voice tone in communication with your kid | 8 tips. Easy! | Live Stream

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2ZuQN4HTt0 This video link Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! (To fully understand this chapter you may read first:”5 Eye contact tips | how to communicate with your eyes” Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DeEn5nlIug4 Voice tone in communication with your kid | 8 Tips. Easy! The sound of your voice has a profound influence when you communicate with your kid. Don't believe me? Just check it out next! 1. Excitement and Energy | Use upper sounds of your voice when you want to transmit it (but not too high, ok?...) 2. Pace and Tone | Your tone of voice should match your message Choose your pace and tone based on what you're talking about and the mood that you want to create . It helps your kid to understand you . Add meaning to what you say . Your kids will listen to you 3. Level | keep your voice in the lower to mid level range 4. Speed | Slow down your speech speed when speaking to your kid . Speak slower with lower tones and use pauses. It gives your words power and your kids will pay more attention to you . Sometimes use silence - there s nothing wrong in a bit of silence (it can be very powerful) 5 . Voice Location | Create your voice out of your chest instead of out of your throat . It gives you power and authority . It will help you to breath when you talk 6. Content | When talking to your kid avoid using (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) . sarcasm . gossip . judgement . negativity . complaining . excuses . exaggeration . dogmatism . aggressiveness It will help you find your right tone of voice (notice that each one above has associated to it specific tone of voice you should avoid) 7. Voice Awareness | Realize about the impact of your different tone of voice, make adjustments and perfect it to your style You will be surprised how people respond to your tone and how people respond when you change your tone! 8. Keep Calm and just speak gently And now an example that uses all tips above: Molly is playing with her toys and then once again she is throwing her things away because she felt upset about something. You have already given Molly warnings, you've already explained to Molly that throwing things away may broke them and even hurt someone. Now you are going to say to Molly "Molly I m really sorry you can]t play with these toys right now because I have to keep everybody safe. Let s see what else you can play and tomorrow you can have another chance to play with these toys again" . You were calm but firm . you set limits . No chance for negotiation Very different from: "How many times have I seen you throwing your toys away! I'm tired of telling you about throwing your toys! What is the matter with you? Get out of here right now and you can't come back! I will never buy you toys again! You will get nothing on your birthday!..." Bear in mind that our kids get much information and become very aware of your tone of voice, body language and facial expressions when we communicate with them. Everyday we get the chance to shape our children's lives. The way that we talk to our children becomes their inner voice. Just remember that! ;) Don´t forget to subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe to keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! ;) Click here http://educatewithartsenses.com/voice-tone-communication-kid-8-tips-easy/ to learn more! Enjoy!

5 eye contact tips | How to communicate with your eyes | Live Stream

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DeEn5nlIug4 the video link Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! (To fully understand this chapter you may read first:”Kids body language tips | Change how people see you | 3.2” Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rgPZ9YWUeTo) Tell your kid that making eye contact means looking in the eyes of the person you're having a conversation with. When you make eye contact you look interested, you are listening better and the other person feels better. Follow me please! 1. Try this funny game with your kid: Sticky notes game Write a word about emotions on a sticky note. Hide it from your kid while you write it. Stick it in your kid's forehead. One at a time, everyone around (mum, daddy, brothers, friends) will face your kid in the eyes and express that emotion! Your kid will try to guess. Your kid will focus on each person eyes and face and try to read that emotion. Here are some emotion words: . anger . sadness . surprised . excited . confused Add a few more yourself and have fun! 2. Another eye contact game - Make eye contact with some friendly people that you and your kid will pass by on a walk! Ok, it's a little bit silly but you both will have fun! Show your kid how both of you will make a friendly eye contact with someone that passes you by! The last one to break eye contact wins! Some people will look back and smile at you both looking in your eyes. If so, smile back. Debate the all experience later at dinner time! It's a great kids confidence builder! (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) 3. The "Indian Chief Staring Game" It's a great game for kids to break the ice with other. Sit all kids in a circle. Each kid will tell the name and one thing that this kid loves (food, a play...) Then you will pick any two kids The one of them will try to tell right the other kid's name and the thing he loves. Then they swap. The next pair of kids will do the same. This will go around all kids They will make eye contact while they guess and speak. Take the most out of this on birthday parties or when you have lots of kids together. Have fun! 4. The "mirror game" Help your kid to look at the mirror and focus on his own face. Tell him to look at his eyes while he is smiling and while he frowns or grimace. Ask him: "See the difference your eyes make on each frowns or grimace? Will you tell me please?" It only takes some minutes and you may practice before or after the bath. Why not? Encourage your kid to also practice in front of the mirror when he is alone! Or record it on a selfie!!! Won't you? 5. The "eye contact magnet" trick This is for mum,'s and dad's Call your kids name and wait. Only start talking when your kid makes eye contact with you. - Alice dear? - Yes mum! - Alice dear? (you'll keep calling her untill she looks at you in your eyes) When Alice looks in your eyes you'll say- - Ah!!! There you are! Alice will smile at you in the eyes then you start talking! Piscadela de olho... The magnet works!! Practice the previous 5 and enjoy finding a few more that suits you and your kid! Have a great time together looking in each other eyes! Watch next video now: “Voice tone in communication with your kid | 8 Tips. Easy! | 3.4” Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2ZuQN4HTt0 Don´t forget to subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe to keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! ;) Click here http://educatewithartsenses.com/5-eye-contact-tips-communicate-eyes/ to learn more! Enjoy! Subscribe to my channel and share this video with your friends or anyone else who may benefit from this information. Thank you so much for watching and remember if you want to have a great life with your kids take action and take action now!!