Voice tone in communication with your kid | 8 tips. Easy! | Live Stream

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2ZuQN4HTt0 This video link Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! (To fully understand this chapter you may read first:”5 Eye contact tips | how to communicate with your eyes” Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DeEn5nlIug4 Voice tone in communication with your kid | 8 Tips. Easy! The sound of your voice has a profound influence when you communicate with your kid. Don't believe me? Just check it out next! 1. Excitement and Energy | Use upper sounds of your voice when you want to transmit it (but not too high, ok?...) 2. Pace and Tone | Your tone of voice should match your message Choose your pace and tone based on what you're talking about and the mood that you want to create . It helps your kid to understand you . Add meaning to what you say . Your kids will listen to you 3. Level | keep your voice in the lower to mid level range 4. Speed | Slow down your speech speed when speaking to your kid . Speak slower with lower tones and use pauses. It gives your words power and your kids will pay more attention to you . Sometimes use silence - there s nothing wrong in a bit of silence (it can be very powerful) 5 . Voice Location | Create your voice out of your chest instead of out of your throat . It gives you power and authority . It will help you to breath when you talk 6. Content | When talking to your kid avoid using (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) . sarcasm . gossip . judgement . negativity . complaining . excuses . exaggeration . dogmatism . aggressiveness It will help you find your right tone of voice (notice that each one above has associated to it specific tone of voice you should avoid) 7. Voice Awareness | Realize about the impact of your different tone of voice, make adjustments and perfect it to your style You will be surprised how people respond to your tone and how people respond when you change your tone! 8. Keep Calm and just speak gently And now an example that uses all tips above: Molly is playing with her toys and then once again she is throwing her things away because she felt upset about something. You have already given Molly warnings, you've already explained to Molly that throwing things away may broke them and even hurt someone. Now you are going to say to Molly "Molly I m really sorry you can]t play with these toys right now because I have to keep everybody safe. Let s see what else you can play and tomorrow you can have another chance to play with these toys again" . You were calm but firm . you set limits . No chance for negotiation Very different from: "How many times have I seen you throwing your toys away! I'm tired of telling you about throwing your toys! What is the matter with you? Get out of here right now and you can't come back! I will never buy you toys again! You will get nothing on your birthday!..." Bear in mind that our kids get much information and become very aware of your tone of voice, body language and facial expressions when we communicate with them. Everyday we get the chance to shape our children's lives. The way that we talk to our children becomes their inner voice. Just remember that! ;) Don´t forget to subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe to keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! ;) Click here http://educatewithartsenses.com/voice-tone-communication-kid-8-tips-easy/ to learn more! Enjoy!