How to communicate with children Chapter 3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulyQz4SD_m0 this video link Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! (To fully understand this chapter you may read first here: "Thoughts about time for kids 2.1" Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-OYNipbwzw) Let's talk about how to communicate with children. But first let's pick up some clues from nature! Animals interact and communicate very well with each other. Despite not having an elaborate language they could use to make their life easier as happens in humans. However the message that "animal parents" want to transmit is immediately understood by their young without need for the assault… If you look at the animal world is curious to understand how things work in nature and in circumstances that involves it. What is essential in the relationship between parents and children in the animal world is transmitted so perfectly, clear and indisputable. All behaviors, reactions or ways to solve situations with children, should be above all, ways of interact with them. Resulting in a immediate understanding by children of what we educators want. At the same time, they must understand that there is a hierarchy between parents and children. That is the result of parents more experience in the real world. Little touches with the muzzle for example leave a clear message! In practice, if they don’t understand the call of attention, most likely they will be prevented from feeding. Next time, the message is certainly seized. (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) The young animals have come to understand the reality of the authority. The hierarchy and the reality that everything is allowed as long as they abide by the basic rules. Otherwise they could starve. Pure and harsh reality of nature! So, why do we speak so much?… When it comes to dealing with kids, we realized that observing animal behaviors can give us valuable clues that can be perfectly applied to our children. Believe me! After too much National Geographic, and many observations during years within my nuclear family, with friends and acquaintances I start to get some tricks about communication strategies. Understand communication interaction itself is the starting point. I managed to gather a set of extremely useful clues. It helped me to systematize what can be ways to act in various situations with children. It all boils down to one word. Communication Strategies! We think our orders are very clear. We repeat thousands of times the same thing, so why the information does not pass? Why they don’t seem to understand what we say and doesn´t do what we want them to do? To provoke us? Counteract? To annoy us? After a day of work? Just because? It’s their fault? Is there any one to blame? (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) The information passing or not to our kids, with the results that we want, are related to the way we communicate with them. Sometimes as parents we get too focus on providing the best conditions so that they can be competitive in the real world. True and important but it's not all! We need to know how to improve communication skills, verbal and nonverbal communication and be effective. It's not so that difficult believe me. You just need to find out what works for you and how to be more confident. Thecnology it's our world now. It's completely our kids environment. They dominate technology language and are always serching for free games online to play, playing video games with friends, living inside social media. But technology doesn't end on video games or social media. There's so much great educational projects you can develop with your kids and use it as a strategy for a healthy communication with them. We should start with our own behavior, attitudes, and coherence with the examples we give. We may not be acting in the best way. No problem!..We have a starting point!! Start with the next steps: 1. Stop complaining and whining! 2. Take a break! 3. Take a deep breath! 4. Be openminded 5. Everything that happened from this moment back doesn’t matter anymore! 6. Smile! 7. Get to work! Take a look at my first 8 communication strategies on the next videos and start now right here: "kids need rules limits and boundaries definition 3.1" Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VDSyU3n_X5o Don´t forget to subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe to keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! ;) Click here http://www.mariasereno.org/how-to-communicate-with-children/ to learn more! Enjoy!