Thoughts about time for kids 2 1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-OYNipbwzw this video link Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! (To fully understand this chapter you may read first:”Growth mindset change to deal with your kids and with your own life Chapter 2 ” Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMb0a2H6dco) I need to share some thoughts about time for kids. We dedicate all the time for kids. The little time we have. But, we need to take care of ourselves too. Our kids will thank us. Each of us exists as an individual, we are beings who want to feel, enjoy and just be…We have our own life and our own will. We want to have babies because they are an addition in our lives. Because we complement each other and because of them we want to be better people. We want to live with them and not For them! And you know, they thank us for our good mental sanity, they thank us for not being dependent of them, they thank us for we have other interests beyond them. They also thank us for being part of us, they thank us by sharing our lives together, they thank us for having things to tell! They thank us for seeing us happy! There is a time... that is our time!... and they thank us for that! You really need to change your “mindset” to deal with your children and with your own life! (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) Some typical phrases I have been listening over time: - "I only went on vacation when my youngest was 8 years old..." - "From the moment we have children, our life ends ..." - "We're not going anywhere without taking our children" - "After all I've done for my son, this is how he thanks me" - "Tuesday and Thursday ballet, Monday English lessons, Wednesday piano, Saturday morning swimming lessons, Saturday afternoon church school...and I think I may be forgetting something… " - "They just want to stay with the playstation. What can I do.. " - "I gave her a beautiful cell phone!" (In elementary school) - "If you don't obey me, you will regret it.." - "I´ll take them to play in the Park and it´s done!" - "This is what we get from life ..." ... Children just want attention from their parents. We know how kids are, they want to have their own needs be accomplished and satisfied no matter what. They easily run to dad or mum they know will easily buy that tasty ice cream. Or that arrives with a gift or take them to that place they love to play. Or let them watch TV whenever and as much as they want! They also want us to be a cool mum or dad that always find things to do with kids, fun activities for kids, that think about indoor games for kids when the weather sucks, that find a new online games for kids when they are feeling bored...and I know you do parental control! Everytime it's childtime. Daily reflections and daily readings make me think about my own time! Where is my own time? Where is it? Too much information and communication technology that feed our kids on a daily basis. We all live at the same home but efficient verbal and nonverbal communication doesn't happen! But if you stay alert to signs, you realize that although they are happy, over time, the satisfaction doesn't last long and you better start pulling your imagination. The demands will be growing and increasingly more and more. One day you will see yourself fighting hard to keep your no!. (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) Oddly enough it's all a matter of managing the time that you have and realize what you really want for your own life and for your children lives. Much better to be an "an hour parent", carrying out an activity with his kid, truly participate in it and solving issues together that being a "3 hour parent" that let his child stay on the computer too much time and then take the kid to play outside a little while he stays at the coffee shop reading the newspaper! No communication! But complain by itself, as you may predict, will not add absolutely nothing nor resolve the situation. Next chapters, I will give you some clues that I consider essential to improve your kids behaviour and tips for out of control issues. Once implemented, the results are immediate, you will see for yourself. But you should be aware that It will also implies small behavior and reactions changes you should take. It will also give you space and time to take a deep breath! A deep breath… Watch next video now: “How to Communicate with Children - Chapter 3” Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulyQz4SD_m0 Don´t forget to subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe to keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! ;) Click here http://www.mariasereno.org/spending-time-with-your-kids/ to learn more! Enjoy!