Effective communication tips with your kid | Short Commands

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcmCH_7JfT8 this video link Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! (To fully understand this chapter you may read first:”Voice tone in communication with your kid | 8 Tips. Easy! | 3.4” Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2ZuQN4HTt0 Effective communication tips with your kid| short commands TIP 1 - Speak strait to the point first. Then engage on the conversation Bear in mind that Children’s window attention is too short After 3, 4 seconds they stop listen to you Give short commands and concise explanations! TIP 2 - Use pauses instead of useless chats if you have nothing to say TIP 3 - Use statements instead of questions TIP 4 - Avoid subject changing or counteract TIP 5 - Conversation pipeline - show different ideas on an exciting sequence TIP 6 – Tell things as they are, in a friendly way Be crystal clear about what you really want to say instead of going around. It's a way for deep long lasting relationship with your kid TIP 7 - Speak calm, gently but firm! (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) Let's practice now! Situation 1: It uses almost all tips (Tips 1,2,4,6 and 7) The “One action Word” approach Your child is with feet on the table. Again... Think on the purpose of the action! Instead of saying “Jump now and put your feet on the floor!!!” Say: "floor!" If your child pretends to not understand by answering “what?”, you say again: "floor!" In extreme cases you will say "floor!" for the third time! She/he realizes at once! Then engage immediately with your kids into a completely different conversation that is really appealing to them. Have a few topics always ready to chat about. Use statements instead of questions. You now used Tip 5 and Tip 3! 90% of children will not need 3 times saying "floor!" to have their feet away from the table and touching the floor as you asked. Usually parents behaviour goes like this: "Get immediately your feet off the table! I already told you a thousand times not to do that! Look what you did to the table! Now it is all dirty! You will clean it all! Jumps on the ground now!!! "...blá, blá, blá....”(Sorry...) (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) Comment: Your child is already miles away. Too much information was given. I assure you that not even half of the first sentence was heard by your child! Compare to the “one action word” approach. See the difference? Situation 2 : (It uses almost all tips (Tips 1,2,4,6 and 7) It also uses the “One action Word” approach You're in the car, the window is open, your kids hand is out of the window and other cars are passing: - Mum: Hand! - Kid: Hãã..? - Mum: Hand! - Kid: Hand??.. Suddenly the kid looks and sees he has his hand out (if he hasn't already known...), and realizes the message immediately! He put his hand inside! Again, you will engage immediately with your kids into a completely different conversation that is really appealing to them use statements instead of questions. You now used Tip 5 and Tip 3! We tend to talk too much! we tend to give tones of explanations! Kids don't need that! Keep it short and simple! Got it? ;) Don´t forget to subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe to keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! ;) Click here http://www.mariasereno.org/effective-communication-tips/ to learn more! Enjoy!