Eye contact communication with kids 3.3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G1k9NaBJYnM this video link Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! (To fully understand this chapter you may read first here: "Body language kids crossed arms 3.2" Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=slm1K6dXlMk) We use our eyes to communicate with others but in general we avoid to look directly to another person and also we avoid a direct look from a person. We simply don´t use eye contact communication with kids! Our eyes reveal too much about us. We should learn how to use our eyes on communication. It can be abusive, it can be intimidating, it can be tricky, whatever you want from both parts. We all know this old saying "eyes are a reflection of your inner self" Using eye contact communication with kids it's a precious thing you should take care of. Enforces your relationship and confident. Sometimes you will not need to say a word! On the other side people that never stablish eye contact in a close relationship it's one of communication barriers. It will be too hard to find communication strategies to get around the problem. Don't let it happen within your family! How does a child's environment affect their behavior? Everything! Having a healthy environment at home is based upon healthy communication. your kids will grow and develop their personality based on it. It's very important to have daily reflections about how to communicate with your kids. If you want to talk with your child you should always take into account the difference in heights that exists between you both. Adults are usually taller than children, and this advantage height difference is tendly used as a position of authority. (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) When you need to solve any issue with your kid it's time for you to put on the same level as your child in terms of hight. Then you should make eye contact. Support yourself somehow, put a knee down and the other one up, without needing to be squatting. If appropriate put the forearm over the knee that is raised, find your best way and do as you like.bWhile doing it you are conveying a relaxed position that makes your kid feel confidence and willing to talk with you. Give some time, in silent, to stablish eye contact. After a while your kid will calm dowm. Then you start your conversation. You may feeling tired all the time and your kid know perfectly how to be a naughty kid but you will find very fast how effective is to make a pause,wait a moment, take a deep breath, make eye contact until your kid be in sintony with you. You are using verbal and nonverbal communication. Nonverbal communication as eye contact will save you time and energy you probably you would need to use on verbal communication only. You are respecting your child and also giving space to dissipate the tension moment even before you say a word. Also your child will not have to be stand on her toes to be heard. So, probably your kid will not need to scream either!... Remember, these attitudes must be taken before you even begin the conversation with your kid. Now you use eye contact communication with kids! Congratulations! The following tip is the voice tone you should use to reinforce your communication! Watch next video now: “Voice Tone Communication with Kids 3.4” Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBkPZdpQ17Y Don´t forget to subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe to keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! ;) Click here http://www.mariasereno.org/eye-contact-communication-with-kids/ to learn more! Enjoy!