Growth mindset change to deal with your kids and with your own life Chapter 2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMb0a2H6dco this video link Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! (To fully understand this chapter you may read first: "Raising Children in Modern Times" Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_e0Ajh_2HI Growth mindset change to deal with your kids and with your own life. Too much planning to have a child...then we don't have time. Time to change! I realized immediately that the love for my children was unconditional, however it was also clear that I needed to have my time, my time into the time of things. Things that had to be made in daily life...and my kids? How about their life? It was clear to me that I was raising “apartment daughters”... What is it like to be a kid these days? Deciding to have children these days is really an act of courage! What should be a happy decision to have babies or give a brother or sister because you don't want to have only children, turns out to be a painful process, a rational analysis of pros and cons… We program the specific time to have them. We don't want our baby to born in this or that month, . because of the cold . because of holidays . because the time to entry at school . because grandmother is not yet retired . because of college degree . because anything else... (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) and gradually, without realizing it, we're not making the most of what is the simply thing of having a baby! After having them, we don't really enjoy it! The lack of time, the professional goals, the lack of physical, mental and of structure, castrate the enjoyment to see these little children grow, develop, and interact with us! We got them early in a bunch of activities so they can swim without drowning. In order to identify the treble clef. To play that instrument and show to parents friends. To dance ballet. To make the roll over and the wheel with perfect technique. To take the direct hit of karate and speak a second language! We can find reall fun activities for kids and things to do with kids. We have much information and communication technology but we are not really communicating with them. So, how to improve communication skills?I sometimes hear the silent scream in the eyes of many little children. So often annoying us pulling insistently our clothes with a "come and play with me!!... Come see what I did!!!". Exactly at those times when it is a bad time…! What a torment! The truth is that we are almost obliged to choose between our life and our children´s lives. Being impossible to have both, or so, we only have slices of each one...without any of them can be fully! You must be open minded. Accept it as a fact and then you are definitly doing the first step to find solutions to solve it. Urgently growth mindset change! You also need to take care of yourself, change mindset to positive, you need to know how to be more confident. We know we have smart kids. They just want to have fun and feel we are there for them. And we do have to invest in our own life too. The typical phrase “we have to make sacrifices for our children” in my opinion is almost like a punch in the stomach. And by the wrong idea that we must renounce of our life when we gave kids. This punch hurts!... Watch next video now: “Thoughts about time for kids” Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-OYNipbwzw Don´t forget to subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe to keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! ;) Click here http://www.mariasereno.org/developing-a-growth-mindset-in-children-10-tips/ to learn more! Enjoy!