Why am I so tired | Chapter 1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LfzMFY9uFS4 this video link. Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! Why am i so tired all the time? Positive quotes about life doesn't seems to help... I'm always searching for educational games for my kids, cool and fun activities for kids, original craft ideas, things to do with them, challenges to do with friends... So much efford and such little time! How to improve communication skills? Develop verbal and nonverbal communication with our children? Be more confident and take care of myself? That's why I am feeling so tired! You should take care of yourself! I looked around me, it bothers me the perception that I was having… it bothers me how I felt about it. How are we living our lives? In what way our children are living?... In everyday life, it happened a lot of times, watching people and situations around me. Curious and intrigued at the same time to realize the complex human being that each of us is! My eyes saw what catch my attention, and all of a sudden, as magic, whatever I was watching at the time was, in my mind transported to a screen. A big screen! That screen becoming a film happening right in front of me, and I, myself, stayed in my discreet shell and watched...My eyes are focus on gestures, on expressions, on the tone of voice, in breath, in attitudes, in the face of each character in the movie, in each interaction with the outside world of themselves. All the information that my conscious think relevant and curious, is collected and carefully stowed in specific boxes that exist somewhere in my mind. . Stress and impatience in relationships and everyday life issues was common. . I saw pause moments to be made in hurry and moments of quiet to be passed in tension. . Slouching shoulders and accommodated smiles. . Indifference and at the same time concern. (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) Details of these films have been recorded in my head for years. Unable to remain indifferent to so much information that I was getting passively. The issue becomes much more delicate and specially sensitive for me when characters who come into play, are kids…These lovely little human beings, proud of any parent, a genetic result of ourselves, or not. At the moment they are born, also blossom in us something as big as the whole world that fits inside us called unconditional love. These little beings are the ones that change our lives that make us feel good and often make us blind in the decisions and choices we have to take! These wonderful beings can also become the most terrifying creatures. I know why am I always tired. Kids try to manipulate and blackmail us, perfectly aware of our weaknesses! They are intelligent and skill enough to use it with greatest refinements! They can transform our lives into a real nightmare! To the point where we feel completely unable to deal with daily issues. They win us by fatigue and can make us feel like we're the worst parents in the world! In my life as a mom of 2 wonderful little kids of 5 and 8 years old, I found myself thinking about the ability these two creatures have to turn things around. Sometimes with such refinement and subtlety, that I start question myself if I am judging them unfairly. Specially when my kids look at me with those sad and sorry eyes of Puss in boots, so well played! Some real Hollywood stars! I felt outraged! ;) (Subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe and keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids!) However, we must make it very clear that kids are not bad creatures nor have any machiavellian plan to destroy our lives. They only need rules in order to deal with too much imputs, requests, demands and challenges of everyday life. Gives me creeps to think that actualy our children spend more time in school than with us. Where the power of the group reigns, coming along with attitudes and expressions we often do not recognize in our own kids. Becoming little demanding children that want to see their needs quickly met. When at home they only want to stay on cell phone playing or in their favourite social media communicating and sharing their lives. Although kids have real benefit using technology and social media there can be serious downsides to all this online sharing world. As parents we shoud become aware and prepare our kids for this online world. And then, I saw myself…. How many faces do we have to be?... Watch next video now: "Raising Children in Modern Times" Click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_e0Ajh_2HI Don´t forget to subscribe here http://www.mariasereno.org/Subscribe to keep getting more tips for a great life with your kids! ;) Click here http://www.mariasereno.org/why-am-i-so-tired-parenting-education-and-guidance/ to learn more! Enjoy!